the war ended

well.. it's not some sort of war.. it's jz a mild verbal war in the house.. and everything is settled within that 3hours in the midnite.. omg.. =.= i think all of us are really energetic in the midnite. We're the owls! -.-"

sometimes i really salute the guys... this is the big difference btw both sexes. When girls get emotional, guys are always there to calm us down. When guys get emotional, they usually can calm it down themselves. This is what NEUTRAL means. Neutrality is very important in our house. hahaha~ :)

to me, quarrel is avoidable, IF NOT u jz don't say anything.. but this doesn't really help ppl to sort things out. It's like running away from the truth and not to solve it immediately. That's why i am wrong. For my friends, they feel quarrel is the time when all of us pour ur hearts out. It seemed to be working quite well in the house by running this "anger management"-quoted by joshua. Yup. I couldn't agree more. All of us care bout each other in different ways. Maybe i'm cold, maybe i'm warm in heart.. but then.. maybe i didn't show any facial expression to u that i'm care. THat's the cons of being a human. I mean, especially to the Asians. Ya...terutamanya chinese. Let's count, how many friends will tell u "hey, i love u the way you are" or "hey! i appreciate what u've done to me"... well.. these sentences are like the greatest gold in the mouth where u won't even lick it out and tell :) rite? But guess what.. i do tell these to my friends. It's nth wrong with it. Mushy or not mushy is another matter. Rite? okie... maybe for girls are still acceptable lor~ =.= ahhah! *eh-hem... guys?* forget it..

after so many things popped in and out of the house (i mean bad things... really BAD), we've finally come to an agreement. Next time, please speak ur heart out. OOOOKKKKiiiiee.e.... we DID tell that in the first place but jz that no one dare to move in the first place. We scare to hurt friends' feelings. Ya.. that's the most crucial barrier. Anyway, since now.. the things had settled, let's jz pray that nth will happen anymore. We're indeed bad luck enuff to cope with every little problem. Lama-lama jadi bukit, then we'll cry again :/ hahah! no lar.. jkjk~

sometimes, we need to know "how" more than "why"~ when this problem occurs, please ask ourself how to solve this instead of asking why and why and then in the end blame anybody. Forget bout the past coz we're not past-oriented ppl and don't be the future-oriented ppl too. Jz treasure the present. Cherish it. Now... i'm indeed relieved and can hv a good sleep. AT LEAST, the biggest bomb had "boomed"! ^^

i'm really happy and blessed to have them as my housemates and friends. Indeed a worth while experience last "morning"... thank you guys.. may us be well and happy.. ALL THE TIMES! :)