16th day of internship
Eden had another seminar entitled " Children with Learning Difficulties" today~
Targetted participants: parents with learning difficulties child
It's really touched my heart to see some mothers cried while sharing. Sigh. Mothers are always the greatest human on earth. We maybe wouldn't know how much our parents had spent throughout our lives. So... must treasure them a lot a lot. Take their nags as a piece of advice; their harsh words as another form of love/ adverse psychological motivation. =) i know it's hard. But we have to try to understand. :) that's what a child must do. ^^"
Parents with learning difficulties children are even pathetic. Or i can say, they are tired and helpless. Their biggest hope is to hear their children speak a complete sentence or just to give a simple respond. Sigh. See? We cannot take things for granted. If we are healthy and perfectly normal, we have to be thankful. There are a lot of innocent people for us to give a helping hand. Although i couldn't do anything today, but i think i can do something in the future. I wanna be the supporter of the needy.
So... it's really an eye-opening experience for me to attend this seminar. This was more like a group counseling. =) Sharing one's experience with everyone. Of course... it's within that 4 walls without spreading out the stories. =)
BIG REMINDER!!
Parents scold us not because they hate us.
Parents scold us because they do not like our certain attitudes/ behaviors.
They still love us as their children if we change.
I feel this remark is really very vital. Because we often assume that parents scold us because they don't love us anymore. I wonder u guys had felt this way before. But i did :( It really sad of me to imagine how my parents do not love me anymore. Silly? But that's what a child will do. Even teenagers. Yeaa..
2 comments:
Damn hormone! Or was it your post which makes my eyes wet? Not crying la, just welling up ;) It's true that a lot of us don't understand their love until we really grow up and until they're no longer here(touch wood) or no longer bother to nag at us anymore. We're sure gonna miss the "miserable" part of our life being nagged by them 24/7.
On learning difficulties, is lack of concentration can be cured? I'm 21 and I have serious problem in paying attention of focusing for long, especially when I study. How to treat??
thanks and all the best for the following internship =)
haha~ coz u thought of your parents~ =)
Erm.. for this learning difficulty of yours... eh... erm... i have no idea how to treat~ haha!
But when have no concentration at that particular subject that u're studying, i suggest u stop study that subject. Take a break. Some of my friends said we can do our favourite thing for one hour then get back to studies~ -_-" i wonder that's true~ hahah! Maybe u can try? @@"
One serious question...
May u intro urself? ahhaa!
You're Si Zhe's friend huh? ^^"
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