outcome

p/s: this is going to be just a random post.

i used to think to myself, sometimes, is it very important to always focus on the outcome of something? Like, we do this in order to get this; we proceed with this because we think this is going to a fruitful result. Do we really need to be that rationale all time? Do we? Really we do? for instance, we can't see a solid outcome derived from certain project because we are simply nobody to feel how other people feel, especially when the outcome can't be tabulated statistically. Sometimes, i really wish to convince to people that outcome CAN BE subjective. It also can be qualitative. =)

was talking to a friend the other day. Being rational is good but over rational will affect the result of something. I kind of agree with the statement said. Well, i said that. Haha! Sometimes, we're just too logic because our teaching and cultures had conditioned us to be as such. The power of rationality can be so magical. Best case is you get something very positive and worst case is you lose a lot of things in life. It takes so much of time to arrange your thoughts. In the process of arranging your thoughts to fit into the criteria or to fit into the community/society, we have already lost a lot of touch. A very obvious example would be relationship with human.

I just want to say, we're just way too structured.

sometimes, i feel human is very blessed by God. we get the chance to choose and make decision on our own. It can be something beneficial for us. Well, most of the times human are quite selfish and due to this, we only think about ourselves and neglecting others. (this is a highly discouraging action from me to you, i don't like this) We get to interact with people. We get to see/eat/smell/play/read good things. I always think, whoever is it in life, we just gotta cherish them. We ought to treat people nicely because we all, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US is relational to each other. Believe it or not, like it or not it is the universal truth. We ought to speak in a respectful tone, be it you're younger or older. 

Therefore, i'm here to highly encourage you guys. Treat everyone as an important person. Respect each other. Give ways for people to breathe. Create a better understanding within each other. The world will be very beautiful. It's not easy, but it's time to give it a try if you've yet started any of these.