12th day of internship
Well... it seems long yet so short of how the time flies. @@"
After working at Eden a short while, i noticed that, *sigh* parents nowadays are @!E#%$#%!! Of course, they are educated and uneducated ones whom SHOULD be equally served. Hmmm... but they are just some portion of parents who take Eden for granted. They literally dump their kids for classes. Some said(in mandarin), " any class suit my kids? i wanna dump my kids here while i am working and will pick them up after my work mah... it's convenient! " Gosh... how would u react with such remark? I donno. *i just grin*
Last sat, a kid, well, i assume he is a special kid who practically, lives in his own world. His mum sends him here just to socialise with other kids. Hmmm... it is so heart broken of me to see that he's from a well to do family. He's smart. He's brilliant. But he does not speak to others. When counselor was teaching english, he did math. Mummered in his own words. Hmmm... counselor taught me to be more patient with him and to sayang his head while he's talking on his own and tell him "shhh" softly~ Surprisingly, he did~ Whatever ppl ask him to do, he will complete it. But after 5 secs, he's back to his own business. One word: sympathetic. Who can open his heart?
I really hope i can deal with these difficult children but i think... i could not. I am not interested in kids. I respect and salute my counselor for her patience, love and care towards these children. Children need praise and affirmation. She really can do that! I was touched to see her ways of dealing with kids. How i wished i could just be like her. But... i am so not up to it yet.
Anyway, those are the sad stories based on my own observation. It taught me to be more appreciative. It taught me to feel how blessed i am. Most importantly, I am thankful for my parents who do not abandoned me like the rest of the parents did.
Recently, i've been reading a book entitle "Emotion vs. Emotional Hurt". Wow!!!! Love that book man! So meaningful. =) love psycho books~~~ weeeeeeeeee!!! I will start to read Eden's library collection when i am free. ^^" In fact, i just finished one~ ^^
I must start my everyday with love.
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9 comments:
parents are so busy nowadays.. i mean, nowadays, parents are so busy..
if both of them are working, they really got not enough time for children. i mean most of the time lah. but they hav to work~
so how?
dunno~
time allocation is always very important in building up a family. How come certain ppl can but certain ppl cannot?
Actually... i feel, it's just a matter of whether u're willing to sacrifise or not... that is the most important question for us to think of. =)
if u have no time for kids, then why u have kids in the first place? =) PLANNING is a pre-family "must-do-programme"
Hmm...maybe you will understand more when you become a mother next time...LOLZ!!
wow~
that's another good point~~
i shall think about it next time~ well... NEXT time means... next time.... very very next i think~ ahahahha! :S
I wonder where you are working as an intern? I was thinking of Eden the restaurant which serves delicious western food.yum!
But anyway, I believe the kid is one of those with autism? These kids are really special kids. They don't like to talk to others but they have very high IQ! And some (social worker) even say they looked adorable. They need people studying psychology (like you) to open their heart I guess, or else why are you there? haha
wish you all the best in dealing with the kids. You are blessed to work with kids because you see the most innocent side of human on them =)
Yerr... envy you.. ur internship sounds great compared to mine... I love kids! they r sooo cute....
wish u all d best ^^
about time allocation, i don't really think it's easy... easier say than done~
then.. next time when i got kids, u be the babysitter lah~ wan? wuahahhaha..
about time allocation, i don't really think it's easy... easier say than done~
then.. next time when i got kids, u be the babysitter lah~ wan? wuahahhaha..
I DON'T WANT!!!!!!
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