nature vs nurture

Nature vs nurture is something i learned from the first day of taking psychology. Hehe~ It's very subjective or shall i say debatable?? yeaaa....

Are u changing? by environment or by the way u're brought up or by gene? -_-"

Well, it is so absurb to hear/see someone who's close to u is changing drastically to somebody that u no longer know. Yet so close yet so blur. yea... i guess this is a suitable description for my feeling now. Sigh.

I always believe that we can determine what our future holds because it lies within ourselves. Am i being stubborn here or what? nvm. Future goal is something reachable if u are willing to put in effort. Or even just a try. When our parents put u into their trust, you just gotta cherish it. Die-die also must hold up. It is SO annoying to see someone u know are changing into another person, who is no longer favourable. Maybe i'm wrong. Maybe i'm just out-dated. Yeaa.. this is how i tell myself after looking at it. But i believe it is such a NO-NO thing to me.

I know that ppl are changing every single day. And now i STRONGLY believe that environment really can change a person. o.O" yeaaa~ If we know that we're changing into someone better, we gotta continue. But if we know that we're losing our track, please get into the train and ride a way back home. However, the sad truth is, we always DONNO whether our changes are good or bad. Haha~ Therefore, outsiders are very important. Judgment can be wrong but it can be right sometimes.

one sentence: WE MUST ALWAYS KNOW OUR BOUNDARIES.