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In life, there are certain values that we are upholding with or hoping it comes to us as well. What goes around, comes around. =) Although it isn't always like that, but it is, most of the time. I guess it's due to the recency effect of my surrounding, I feel the value of acceptance is utterly crucial in everyone's life. It is to me. How about u? :)

A word of "yes" or "i agree with you", or "go ahead", "you're good" is just more than anything. After self-introspect during counselling training, I honestly sense that i am fear of losing people in my life. In order to conquer this fear, i feel, being accepted is the best medicine. Haha! Sounded a bit out of the line, but the question is, who doesn't want to be accepted? Be it a friend, a child or merely an acquaintance. I love to be accepted as who i am and i will continue to acknowledge my friends, especially the close ones :)

I've came to realization that, people who are lacking of security will have a higher tendency of wanting being accepted. This is just my hypothesis. Who wants to conduct this experiment? =_= Hmmm... I donno how true this can be. Just like how I've lost something, and i'll yearn to gain something. Rejection vs. acceptance. People who are being rejected will always pay so so much attention or create the scene of gaining attention. I think it's a norm of life? Maybe. Try to put myself into other's shoes, then maybe we can feel the same way too.

In this season of giving, go ahead and convey the message of acceptance and befriend with people around you. I think it will be the best gift we're giving to the significant ones. It may even be a surprise. ^^ To my friends out there, thank you for being my friends. Nana appreciates it with all my heart. ^^