Feeling

Sometimes, we just can't seem to hold our emotion. We can't touch it. We can only feel it. That's why people always mumble the sentence "You just can't understand how i feel." (which is 100% true!)

A people-oriented person always care about the feeling of others. We are worried that we might hurt other people's feeling. I agree with what a friend said today, "I'm afraid of opening the wound and not be able to close it properly." His sentence somehow strikes me a lil, for me being a lil bit insensitive in a sense that i feel it's ok to talk about the problem because we're not intentionally hurt the other party but we hope to talk about this and find a better solution. We are trying to deal with the challenge by not being too personal. Then i begin to realise and do some self-talk. "Since when i am so cold blooded?" haha! =X Did SDCU give me sucha "training" before? =X Oh well, i guess sometimes i also hope to focus on the task.

Open communication at times do hurt others' feeling. It's never easy for 2 person to initiate an honest heart to heart talk. How many of you actually have these friends who do this with you once a while? I believe it takes time to understand a person. Be it at work, at personal level, we indeed need a sincere talk. Whatever it is, it can be an affection, can be an affirmation, or it can even be the disagreement. All of these can improve one's relationship. The one who listens is always the best because the one who initiates the talk needs so much of courage and needs to filter the words in case it hurts. Of course, the listener should always keep an open mind to receive the data sent! :)

As i am growing, i begin to realise the importance of handling crisis in myself. I begin to take up responsibilities, to initate a talk with people that i pay much attention to, to handle people with care and to take in opinions with an open heart. I'm still learning. Way to go =) The most important thing is we must care about others' feeling.